Real Talk About Selling
Rules To Help You #SellLikeYou
Professional selling was an enigma to me when I was getting started. I was out on my own on a daily basis: no bullpen, no sales floor, and no water cooler. Through the unfortunate timing of some circumstances, my onboarding experience wasn’t exactly robust. “Go get ‘em, kid!”
Naturally, I looked for books to read (this was before social media was a thing). I was regularly listening to audio programs from Nightingale Conant (30-day trials made it like a remote library), and while I learned a lot about what it meant to be in business (Harvey Mackay had a profound impact on me), there wasn’t a lot available at the time that was strictly about selling.
Sell to Your Strengths with Jason Bay
Jason Bay is a sales trainer and coach and the founder of Outbound Squad. He helps sales reps turn complete strangers into paying customers. He also happens to be a great friend and one of my favorite people in the world.
7 Steps To #SellLikeYou
Growing your business does not have to be complicated.
With the right structures in place, the path to growth lights up in front of you.
What is a Salesperson "Supposed to" Look Like?
Every stereotype comes from somewhere, but it’s about time you think about whether stereotypes in sales are helping you or holding you back. You don’t have to try and fit into a mold that just doesn’t feel right.
Selling is not an instruction manual to be followed, it’s a problem to be solved. When you embrace your own strengths, talents, and expertise, you’re capable of doing your very best work.
The Biggest Trap Salespeople Set For Themselves
“I’m not trying to sell you anything. I just want to build a relationship.”
This is a trap, and you’re setting it for yourself.
It’s a bait and switch, and it shows a lack of integrity.
Abandon the Stereotypes with Leslie Venetz
Leslie Venetz is a consultant and advisor that helps build commercial teams that can meet the needs of the modern B2B buyer. She spent 15 years selling to the C-Suite in enterprise sales and has been Head of Sales 3 times.
Leslie is also fiercely passionate about DEIB initiatives, and we touch on that a little bit in our conversation today. She also hosts a business book club on Patreon, where I’ll be her guest in October.
I Like It When You're Skeptical
“You’re not wrong…”
I got excited when I heard her say this. Even though it came with a skeptical eyebrow and half a smile, I knew I had my prospect exactly where I wanted her…
Thinking.
We All Tell Stories
You know those people who tell great stories? They’re magnetic and captivating. They hold the attention of an entire room and make time stand still. Those are special people, and you don’t have to be one to tell great stories.
I used to think that I wasn’t a good storyteller, and then a couple of people told me exactly the opposite, and I started thinking differently about the concept.
The Three Agreements Every Sales Team Must Make
If your sales team isn’t crystal clear on three things, then I promise there is dysfunction and revenue is being left on the table. These concepts are often taken for granted, and leaders are afraid to broach these conversations.
That’s not leadership, and your performance is suffering as a result.
The ACORN Method with Ravi Rajani
Ravi Rajani helps B2B sales teams captivate their customers, build trust, and sell more by unlocking the power of story. Ravi is here to help you craft stories that sell and deliver sales presentations that convert.
"I Can't..."
The number one key to opportunity creation is making your prospect believe that you’re someone worth talking to and that you have something worth talking about. That’s it. That’s the bar you’re trying to clear.
In order to make someone else believe it, then you’d best believe it too.
Redefine Success And Failure
Most salespeople have terrible definitions of what it means to succeed and what it means to fail. The lack of perspective sets the bar way too high for most people to see exactly how well they’re actually doing.
Big Magic with Harriet Mellor
Harriet Mellor is a sales coach for small to medium sized businesses and individuals. She’s also the host of the Sell Like You Podcast.
On ChatGPT and Personalization at Scale
We’re hearing a lot about ChatGPT these days. The technology is either thrilling or terrifying, depending on your point of view. The idea that there are infinitely efficient brains out there doing the same work we’re doing is quite a proposition.
I was asked recently about how I think it can/will affect the work that salespeople do. I haven’t played with the tool enough on my own, and it’s still way too early in the game to make definitive statements, but it’s clear that AI is a force to be reckoned with. It’s not going away, and it’s only going to get better.
Redefine Selling to Suit You
Selling is necessarily not a tangible “thing.” There are so many right ways to do it, that what is wrong for someone might be perfect for someone else.
The sales process is rigid, as I’ve mentioned before. That’s the science of selling. Your sales methods are fluid, and they represent the artistry behind what we do. Art is subjective, therefore so is selling.
I want you to stop trying to follow the rules, and realize that you can make them up.
A Different Way to Look at Growth
The classic hunter/farmer dichotomy among sellers is a bit overplayed to me. Why do they need to be so distinct? I’ve been selling for almost two decades now, and I can definitively say that the best salespeople hunt for great places to farm.
While some people are going to be better suited for one role than the other, is this a problem of fit or just a lack of accountability in the sales culture? Insisting on winning net-new business at the expense of nurturing some of your best customers is a mistake. The lack of perspective is hurting a lot of companies, so allow me to provide you with a new one.
Sell The Way You Buy with David Priemer of Cerebral Selling
David Priemer is the Founder and Chief Sales Scientist at Cerebral Selling, and he’s also a “psychologist to the stars.” If you don’t already have his book, Sell The Way You Buy, then why not? It’s a perennial bestseller and has been translated into 5 additional languages.
Set Up 2023 for Sales Success
As I prepare for my 2023 sales kickoff events with clients, I’m noticing a lot of common themes in my recommendations. These are things that should be revisited regularly but are often taken for granted.
If you invest the time (and the thought) in these elements, and if you’re disciplined in your execution, 2023 will likely be the best year you’ve ever had.
What Does It Mean to Sell with Integrity?
What does it mean to sell with Integrity? Most people think of integrity along the lines of morality but to me, and with its relation to #SellLikeYou, it means a lot more than that.
Rome Wasn't Built In Day
We’re a week into the new year, and I’m already disappointed that I haven’t accomplished all of my goals.
I know this is ridiculous, but it’s the feeling I get every year at this time, and I’m sure some of you do too. It’s important to remember that any goal you set for the year is going to take habit and discipline to reach. You’re probably not going to create that kind of discipline in just a few days (or you haven’t really challenged yourself).